But for Lebetkin, his West Hartford memories started much earlier. In a handwritten letter and in an interview at his home Lebetkin, now 86, remembered the town he first visited while still a boy. "My father drove to Charter Oak Park when I was a youngster," he wrote.
Today, West Hartford Center is known for restaurants like Azul, Cosi, and Grants with not a grocery store in sight. Not so in Lebetkin's day. He remembers M.J. Burnham's on South Main, calling it a "great store for delivery service" with close to 30 trucks they kept in the backyard. Lebetkin delivered R.C. Cola to Burnham's until he left to start his own grocery store Capitol Park Market. It lasted two years until the Army claimed him for World War II. ---------
Lebetkin also remembers the driving challenges presented by the since-disappeared rotary at Farmington Avenue and Main Street. After "surviving" the rotary, residents shopped at stores long gone: the Colonial Delicatessen, Krohner's Bakery, and Hilliard's candy store.
Carrie Lebetkin remembers window shopping trips with her husband in West Hartford Center. One trip stands out. She already had an antique watch but saw a beautiful one in a store window. When her husband reminded her she already had an antique watch, Carrie Lebetkin said that she had two daughters-in-law and wanted to leave both of them an antique watch. Her husband agreed with her logic and bought the second watch.
Going toward Hartford on Farmington Avenue brings two houses of worship to Lebetkin's mind, one of them his own Beth David Synagogue, the town's first Orthodox synagogue. About 1947, Beth David opened in a home and called itself West Hartford Synagogue. In 1954, they dedicated the Beth David vestry. Lebetkin also recalled the building of St. Thomas the Apostle on the corner of Dover Road and Farmington Avenue, which started as a basement church.
Continuing toward Hartford on Farmington Avenue was the Foot Guard of Connecticut, located in the armory. Across the street was the Howard Johnson Restaurant, which, Lebetkin wrote, "during the fifties had Wednesday all-you-can-eat on fish."
This year, West Hartford Center has been crowded with cow-gazers for its CowParade, but in 1952, when the Lebetkins moved to one of the first homes on Mohawk Drive, you could still see and hear the real thing. The area that now includes King Philip Middle School was part of the Miller farm. Cows were kept near Albany Avenue on King Philip Drive, and Carrie Lebetkin often took her two sons, Glen and Peter, for walks to see the cows.
Down at Bishop's Corner was a vegetable stand that closed in winter. Lebetkin also remembers the golf range on the corner of King Philip and Albany Avenue. Another Bishop's Corner landmark was Dutchland Farms, where Lebetkin took his wife for dinner and teens their dates for ice cream. It wasn't a teen hangout though. Lebetkin said, "We didn't have any hangouts like you have today."
Looking back, the couple has fond memories of their 56 years in West Hartford.
"It's a very nice place to live and I enjoy being here," said Lebetkin.
Did you live in West Hartford during the Hurricane of 1938 ? Maybe you've been living in this area so long you even remember Charter Oak Park, M.J. Burnham's Grocery Store, and Maple Hill Restaurant. You might be a more recent arrival, and your memories go back to the opening of the Park Road Playhouse
Laurel Springs Park, Charter Oak Park, Capitol Park, Weider's and Luna Park.